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Back in 2006, My journey took me to the Australian capital for an admissions interview for medical school. I figured I would book lodging after getting there, but upon reaching the city, a major event was happening and all the backpackers hostels and cheap hotels were completely sold out.

As a visitor from Singapore, I considered the possibility of bed down in the airport – only to discover the local airport, not like the one back home, does not operate all night. With no idea how to proceed and getting a bit desperate, I caught a city-bound bus and began walking near the casino, thinking I might spend the evening somewhere that stayed open 24/7. Admittedly, this plan at my peak for acing a crucial interview the following day, but as a broke student, luxury accommodation was impossible.

The world needs more individuals with such compassion.

Apparently, I appeared out of place because a young woman saw me walking aimlessly through downtown and asked whether I needed help. I explained my situation and right away she offered I could crash on a spare mattress of her dormitory at the local university – a perfect solution, as that’s where my medical school interview was scheduled for the next day. She even offered some food: a leftover filled rolls she had from her part-time job. This gave me a hot shower and a secure location to rest to spend the night.

Looking back, it’s clear to me what a big chance she took as a woman letting a male stranger she’d just met stay in her room. In those days I existed within a bubble of male privilege and not even thinking about things like that. Now, as a father, I’m amazed she took that chance – yet deeply appreciative.

I never did study at the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet the student afterwards, yet her memory has stayed with me that incredible gesture of kindness. My sincere desire is that the universe has returned her good deed many times over. The world needs more individuals with such compassion.